Grown together? you'd think so..

As you've seen, we've been together for a number of years. However, it is still a long distance bit.

We just concluded we like to be handled differently when we are upset and still don't quite grasp those differences. I expect that he'd like to be handled the way I would like if I felt the way he did. This apparently is not the case.
We also concluded we do not like what the other does... While I thought this was the case for myself to him. Apparently, he feels the same way that whatever he does it's just not the way I wanted him to handle it..

Our overall conclusion from these points seem obvious right? But this idea of love, and definitely attachment and longing for each other stops it and makes up just want to ignore these bold differences. Breaking up is such a horrible solution.. please tell me I'm right..